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Overburdened, Frigid Partners I

Human beings are blessed to have bundle of emotions like - Happiness, joy, fear and sorrow. Right from childhood we are emotionally attached to someone or the other, bonding first with the mother. Here we are going to discuss some of the topics related to relationships, emotions and feelings.

I) Overburdened

I would like to take an example of an over-burdened child to explain this topic. Every child in this world is not perfectly parented. These are some common things that force the child to become over burdened.

1) No time left to play or spend time with friends. This happens when they get overburdened with homework or other activities in school
2) Children get over burdened with the pressure from parents in making them over ambitious. These include stress on the little ones to excel academically as well as in extra-curricular activities.
3) Emotional abuse
4) Growing up in a situation where their parents constantly fight.
5) Children get burdened who live with single parent ( who has divorced/ separated)

What are some of the ways to pull out your children from being overburdened?

1) Early intervention and prevention is very important to help children from being overburdened.
2) Proper care and affection should be given by parents/family members, so that they will get a good start in life.
3) Pay attention to your children and do not ignore them
4) Make sure your separation or divorce from your partner is not affecting your children
5) If you see your child is over burdened and you cannot sort out the problem, take your kid to a psychologist.

An over-burdened child is just an example and some other common over-burdened groups are students, workers, parents, teachers and adults. The reason may vary from person to person.

II) Child-Parent to Adult-Adult

a) Child-Parent

According to Transactional analysis, which is a psychotherapy for personal growth, the ego-states are classified into three. They are the Parent-ego state, The adult-ego-state and the child-ego state.

How to nurture Child-Parent Relationship?

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